About six weeks ago, I came across an academic research paper on ritual and religion. The author made a distinction between ceremony and ritual. I had never given this much thought, but I knew I had different feelings about each. 
 
I definitely feel more spiritually at home with the freedom and surprise of personal ritual, but I now recognize that I have created certain personal ceremonies that ground me in tradition and formality. I also add a third approach to connecting with
spirit…festival.
 
Let’s look at the three forms of spiritual practice: festival, ceremony, and ritual.
 
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Let’s explore the distinctions:
 
1. Festival:
   Characteristics:
      - Festivals are often communal celebrations marked by joyous and collective activities.
      - They can be annual events, often associated with cultural or religious
traditions.
   Consideration:
      - Do the Twelve Holy Nights embody a collective celebration for you and your community?
      - Is there a shared sense of joy and festivity during the Holy Nights?
 
2. Ceremony:
Characteristics:
      - Ceremonies involve formal and structured events often led by a priest or
someone with perceived power.
      - They may mark important occasions, transitions, or religious observances.
   Consideration:
      - Are there specific ceremonies or formal rituals associated with the Twelve Holy Nights?
      - How does the structure of these nights contribute
to a sense of sacred formality or significance?
 
3. Ritual:
   Characteristics:
      - Rituals are often personal or communal practices with symbolic significance open to surprise and epiphany.
      - They may involve guiding content with transformative or spiritual intent.
   Consideration:
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Do the Twelve Holy Nights hold personal or communal rituals for you?
      - Are there symbolic gestures or intentional practices that mark this time as distinct and meaningful?
 
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Have you ever considered the Twelve Holy Nights as a Festival, Ceremony, or Ritual, and what significance does this distinction hold for your understanding of this meaningful time?
 
What do you long for from the Twelve Holy Nights?:
 
1. Reflect on Community Engagement:
   - Consider whether the Twelve Holy Nights involve communal festivities, shared ceremonies, or personal rituals within your community. Do you want solitude for the Holy Nights or do you want to
share the experience with others. Who are the others?
  
 
2. Examine Formality and Structure:
   - Explore the formal elements associated with this period. Are there structured events, ceremonies, or predefined activities that distinguish it from everyday life?
If you are designing a ritual, a ceremony, or a festival, what formalities or structures feel enriching?
 
3. Assess Personal Significance:
   - Reflect on your personal engagement with the Twelve Holy Nights. Are there aspects that hold personal significance, perhaps involving ritualistic practices or transformative experiences?
 
4. Differentiate Between Joy and Intention:
   - Distinguish between the joyous aspects of a festival, the formalities of a ceremony, and the intentional, symbolic practices of a ritual within
the context of the Twelve Holy Nights.
Do you want spiritual joy? Do you have an inner spiritual intention for the Holy Nights?
 
5. Consider Growth and Transformation:
   - Explore whether this period represents not only celebration but also opportunities for personal growth, spiritual development, or transformative self-awareness.
What are the roles in festivities, ceremonies, and rituals in your path of inner development?
 
 
6. Acknowledge Diversity of Interpretation:
   - Recognize that individuals within a community may perceive the Twelve Holy Nights differently. Some may emphasize the festive aspects, while others may focus on structured ceremonies or
personal rituals. This can be the community of two or 200. 
 
I encourage you to contemplate these distinctions to deepen your understanding of what the Twelve Holy Nights mean to you as a spiritual
practice.  
 
I write the Inner Christmas Messages to inspire a yearly ritual of self-imagining for you. 
 
The messages offer a guiding focus while revering the freedom of your self-reflection and inner development. They nurture your relationship to self and spirit.  This year they guide you to a new understanding of your relationship to the Archangels and the role they play in your sense of healthy
selfhood.